Another
home picture and the next in order is the coming of a new being,--the
first symbol of the kingdom of heaven--a third immortal, into
the home, consecrating it to new sanctities and adding to its
picture the rosy hues of childhood and the mellow warmth of parental
love. Earth has no other scene so tinged with the softened tints
of heavenly light, at once so tender, so solemn, so full of immortal
possibilities. The past and future meet here and blend their realities
together. The illusions of fancy are gone. Stern reality colors
and characterizes the picture. The joy, the fear, the responsibility
of sacred trust, the hope which arches over the little being an
auroral bow, all mingle in the strong sentiment of this picture,
which no words can make equal in poetic reality to its actual
experience.
What a wonder is a baby, especially
the first! What marvels of sweet surprise are its dreamy eyes,
its tiny hands, its chubby feet, its rosy lips, its hair of silk
and down, its whole little human make-up! Practically considered
it seems to be a little good-for-nothing, so helpless and useless
is it, and yet in the estimate of those into whose hands it has
come, it is worth many times its weight in gold. It brings with
it a subtle power by which it changes these young parents into
new beings, makes their home a new place, sets before them new
objects of life, and transforms the world about them into a new
world. Nothing is with them as it was before. They see with new
eyes, they work with new hands, they feel with new hearts, and
think with new minds. They pass through another stage of development
and learn more of what is within them, and what they are made
to be and made for. They are married again. A new strand is put
into the marital cord that binds them together. In this little
baby, which they call theirs by a title of ownership written in
its body and soul, they feel themselves blended into an indissoluble
oneness. This actual union no divorce can dissolve, no infidelity
can destroy. To this, marriage points. This is the fulfillment
of its intention. It is this, in part, which makes it so serious
and sacred. It is this which involves in such real responsibilities
and fills it with such sublime importance. Marriage deals with
creative power, allies man in partnership of creation with God
and puts upon him the responsibilities involved in a new immortality
of being. Under this view, how grandly serious, as well as joyful
and important, is marriage! And how mysteriously and closely it
allies the great Creator of us all with His children in the continuance
of His creative work and links Him and them in a union impossible
of severance. In a sense He is in them and they live in Him. "We
live and move and have our being in Him." Not far away, therefore,
is He whom we are taught to call "Our Father." And these
first institutions of men, marriage and home, are quickened and
magnified by His presence in them. When men shall marry and dwell
in their homes, in the consciousness of dwelling with God and
of conforming to His will and law in these great institutes, how
much better will marriage and home be, and how much more fidelity,
and unselfishness, and burden-bearing and helpfulness will there
be in this too thoughtless and selfish world! ::Read
Marriage Part I::