From the potent influence and
moral stewardship of the Christian home, we may infer its responsibility.
The former is the argument for the latter. The extent of the
one is the measure of the other. "...For unto whomsoever
much is given, of him shall be much required..." (Luke
12:48) Our responsibilities are thus commensurate with
our abilities. If the latter are properly devoted, we have our
reward; if not, our curse. God will hold us accountable for
the achievements we make by the abilities he has given us. If
he gives us a field to cultivate, seed to sow, plants to train
up, then we are responsible for the harvest, just in proportion
to our agency in its production. If there is not a harvest of
the right kind, because we neglected to cultivate the soil,
to sow the proper seed, and to train up the plants, then He
will hold us accountable.
This is an evident gospel principle. Who will doubt its application
to the Christian home? The family is such a field; the seed
of good or evil the parents can sow therein; their children
are young and tender plants, entrusted to their care; their
mission from God is to "...bring them up in the nurture
and admonition of the Lord."(Ephesians.
6:4) They are also to train them up in His ways. Remember,
where God gives the command, He also gives the power to obey.
If, then, by their neglect, these tender plants are blighted,
grow up in crooked ways of folly and iniquity, and the leprosy
of sin is allowed to spread its dreadful infection over all
the posterity of home; or if, on the other hand, as the fruit
of faithful parental stewardship, blessings are abounding and
children have grown to serve the Lord in His chosen capacity
for their lives, is it not plain that a responsibility rests
upon the Christian home, commensurate with those abilities which
God has given her, and with those interests He has entrusted
to her care?
Let us look at the objective force of this. The family is responsible
for the kind of influence she exerts upon her members. Look
at this in its practical light. There is a family. God has given
children to the parents. How fondly they cling to them, look
up to them for support and direction. They imitate their parents
as their example in all things, take their word as the law of
life, and follow in their footsteps, which they believe will
lead to the sure path of happiness. Yet, in this home, no prayer
is offered up, no Bible instructions given, no holy example
set, no Christian government and discipline instituted, no religious
interests promoted. But on the other hand, sin is overlooked,
winked at, and the world alone is sought. These children behold
their parents toil day after day to provide for their natural
life; they notice the interest they take in their health and
education, and the self-denial with which they seek to secure
for them a temporal competency. And from all this they quickly
infer that their parents love their bodies and value this world
above Christ, and by the force of filial imitation they soon
learn to do the same, and with their parents neglect their souls
and become slaves of the world system instead of children of
God. And thus they go on from one step in departure from God
to another, until they die without hope and without salvation.
Home-responsibility may be inferred from the relation of the
family to God as a stewardship. We have seen that parents are
stewards of God in their household, and that as such they are
placed over their children, invested with delegated authority.
God entrusts them to the care of their parents. Their nature
is pliable, fit for any impression, exposed to sin and ruin,
entering upon a course of life which must terminate in eternal
happiness or misery, with bodies to develop, minds to educate,
hearts to mold, volitions to direct, habits to form, energies
to rule, pursuits to follow, interests to secure, temptations
to resist, trails to endure, souls to save! Oh, how the parental
heart must swell with emotions too big for utterance, when they
contemplate these features of their important trust. What a
mission this, to superintend the character and assist to shaping
the destiny of a child. Such is the influence you exert upon
it, that upon your guidance will hinge it's weal or its woe;
and yours, therefore, will be the lasting benefit or the lasting
shame. What you are now doing for your children is incorporated
with their very being, and will be as imperishable as their
undying souls. We have seen that God has given to you the ability
and means of making them subservient to His glory; and hence
from you He will require them as entrusted talents.
Thus, therefore, you see, Christian parents, how your responsibility
is measured by the magnitude of those interests committed to
your care, by the kind of influence you exert over them, and
by the enormity of that guilt and woe which are consequent upon
your unfaithfulness. Let this be an incentive to parental integrity.
The day is rapidly approaching when you must give an account
of your stewardship.
And let me say too, that a similar corresponding responsibility
rests upon those saved children who enjoy the benefits of a
faithful Christian home. What words of gratitude your heart
should daily express to your loving Heavenly Father who has
blessed you richly. You should strive to be cheerfully submissive
to your parents, realizing that God himself saw fit to put you
in their charge, and to follow in the footsteps of Jesus.
And, ye parents, be faithful to those little ones that are
growing up "...like olive plants round about thy table,"
(Psalms 128:3) so that in the day of judgment,
you may say with joy, in the full assurance of reward, "Here
are we, Lord, and the children whom thou hast given us!"
And your reward shall be, "Well done, thou good and faithful
servant... enter thou into the joy of thy Lord." (Matthew
25:21)
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