If home is a divine institution,
and includes the religious element, moving in the multifaceted
sphere of nature and of the church, then it's calling must be
of God; its mission is divine; it is designed to subserve a spiritual
purpose; it has a soul mission. This was the view of David when
he "returned home to bless his household." To him his
family was a church in miniature, and he its priest. Thus too
Joshua felt his service of God must include family worship.
What then is the mission of the Christian home? It is twofold,--the
temporal and eternal well-being of its members. They are parts
of one great whole. Each must seek the welfare of all the rest.
This involves obedience to the law of cooperation; and has special
reference to that provision which the heads of families should
make for the wants of those who are placed under their protection.
As the parent sustains a physical, intellectual and moral relation
to the child, it is his mission to provide for its physical,
mental and moral wants. "He that provideth not for his
own house hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel."
Natural affections will prompt this. Children are in a state
of utter helplessness. The infant is at the mercy of the parent.
God-given instinct impels the parent to provide for its wants.
That it is a part, therefore, of the home mission to provide
for the physical wants of the dependents there, this is very
evident. To refuse to fulfill it is a crime. This part of home-mission
includes the education of the body, by properly unfolding and
directing its powers, and providing it with appropriate nutriment,
raiment and shelter. In a word, we should make proper provision
for the development and maturity of the physical life of our
children. This is the mission of the parents until the child
is fully able to provide for itself. The child has a legal claim
upon the parent for physical sustenance and education.
It is another part of the home-mission to provide for the intellectual
wants and welfare of the child. Children have minds as well
as bodies. The former needs nourishment and training as well
as the latter. Hence, it is as much the mission of the family
to minister to the well-being of the mind of the child as well
as body. Civil law enforces this. Children have a legal as well
as natural claim to mental culture. In a word, it is the home-mission
to provide for the child all things necessary to prepare it
for a citizenship in the state.
Parents abuse this mission in two ways, either when they by
their own indolence and dissipation compel their children to
support them; or, on the other hand when they become willing
slaves of their children, labor to amass a fortune for them,
and, in the anticipation of that, permit them to grow up in
ignorance, idleness and prodigality, fit only to abuse and spend
the fruit of parental servitude. In a way the misapplied provision
made by parents often becomes a curse, not only to the members
of the family, but to the state and church.
Another part of the home-mission is, the spiritual and eternal
well-being of its members. This is seen in the typical character
of the Christian family. It is an emblem of the church and of
heaven. According to this, parents are called to teach the gospel
of Jesus as the only way to prepare their children in the truth
of salvation, thus training them for heaven as well as for earth.
Parents are "priest unto their families," and have
the commission to act for them as faithful stewards of God,
in all things pertaining to their everlasting welfare. Their
souls, as well as their bodies, are committed to their trust
by God. This is their great mission, and corresponds with the
conception of the Christian home as a spiritual nursery. The
family is "God's husbandry;" and this implies a spiritual
culture. As its members dwell as "being heirs together
in the grace of life," it is the function of each to labor
to make all the rest "fellow-citizens with the saints,
and of the household of God." Parents should provide for
the religious wants of their children. Mere physical maintenance
and mental culture cannot supersede the necessity of the spiritual
training. Children have a right to such training.
This religious provision is twofold; their moral and spiritual
faculties should be developed; and their moral nature supplied
with appropriate sound doctrine in teaching. All the needs of
their moral nature are to be faithfully provided for. The home-mission
involves the business of education of the body, of the mind,
and of the spirit;--of preparation for the state of the home,
the church and for eternity. It is this which makes it so sacred
and reasonable. Strip the Christian family of its mission as
a nursery for the souls; wrest from the parents their high position
as stewards of God; and you heathenize home, yea, you brutalize
it! Tell me, what Christian home can accomplish its holy mission,
when the soul is neglected, when Christ is left out of the home
and the training of the children is abandoned, when the church
is repudiated, and eternity is cast off? You may provide for
the body and the mind of your children; you may amass for them
a fortune; you may give them an accomplished education you may
introduce them into the best of society; you may establish them
in the best of business; you may even fit them for an honorable
and responsible position in life; you may be careful of their
health and reputation; and you may caress them with all the
tender ardor of the parental heart and hand; yet if you do not
teach them of the only Saviour Jesus Christ and pray earnestly
for their salvation, all will be in vain, yea a curse both to
you and them. Husband and wife may love each other, and live
together in peace and harmony of reciprocated affection; yet
if the religious part of their home-mission remains unfulfilled,
their family is divested of its greatest interest and will fall
into ruin; its highest fulfillment will not be attained and
soon will be entombed in oblivion; while their children, neglected
and perishing, will look back upon their home with bitterness
of spirit which the world can neither soothe nor extract. Only
God Himself will be their source of healing. The very source
that the parent neglected to teach their children about. What
a deep empty well, the children will draw upon, all because
the parents neglected to instruct their little ones of the full
well of salvation through Christ Jesus.
How many such homes there are! Even the homes of the church
members are too often reckless of their vocation, leaving the
full training to others. Their moral stewardship is neglected;
their dedications, formal and heartless. No prayers are heard;
no Bible read; no instructions given; no pious examples set;
no holy discipline exercised. Their interest, their hopes and
their enjoyments; their education, their labor and their rest,
are all of the world,--"worldy". The curse of God
is upon such a home!
The importance and responsibility of the home-mission may be
seen in its vicarious character, and in its influence upon the
members. The principle moral reproduction is manifest in all
the home-relations. What the parent does is reproduced, as it
were, in the child, and will tell upon the generations to follow
them. Those close affinities by which all the members are allied,
give to each a molding influence over all the rest. The parents
live, not for themselves alone, but for their children, and
the consequences of such a life is is also entailed upon their
offspring. "The iniquity of the father shall be visited
upon the children unto the third and fourth generation."
If the parents "sow to the flesh," their home, "shall
of the flesh reap corruption;" but if the parents "sow
to the spirit" they will reap blessings.
Sacred and profane history proves and illustrates this great
truth. Did not God punish the first born of Israel, because
their fathers had sinned? And is it not a matter of daily observation
that the wickedness of the parent is entailed upon the child?
Such is indeed the affinity between them that the child cannot,
unless by some special interposition of God, escape the curse
of a parent's sin. This special interposition is the gift of
Christ Jesus. Through Him and Him alone can one escape the penalty
of sin. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten
Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but
have everlasting life. John 3:16
The guilt and condemnation of the unfaithfulness to the home-mission
may be inferred from its importance and responsibility. Those
who are unfaithful are guilty of "blood." We see the
curse of such neglect in the deterioration of character which
so rapidly succeeds parental delinquency. They must answer before
God for the loss which the soul, the state, and the church sustain
thereby.
The Christian home should be qualified for this mission There
can be no such qualification, however, where the marriage alliance
involves inequality--one of the parents a Christian, the other
not; for they cannot dwell "together as heirs of the grace
of life," neither can they effectually dispense that grace
to their offspring. When thus "the house is divided against
itself, it must fall." "Be ye not, therefore, unequally
yoked together." If one draws heavenward and the other
hellward there will be a halting between Baal and God, and the
influence of the one will be counteracted by that of the other."
What communion hath light with darkness? What fellowship hath
righteousness with the unrighteousness? What part hath he that
believeth with an infidel? Thus divided, their home will be
unfit for its high vocation. Can the ungodly husband or wife
fulfill this mission? Can the irreligious parent bring up his
offspring "in the nurture and admonition of the Lord?"
Many parents disqualify themselves for their home-mission by
devoting too much attention to society,--by spending more time
abroad at parties, theaters and various social gatherings of
this and that, as well as gossiping and recreation, than that
of home with each other and their precious gift of children.
They commit their children, with all the family interest, to
nurses or caregivers. They regard their offspring as mere playthings
to be dandled upon the knee, brought up like calves in a stall,
and then turned out to shape their own destiny.
This is a terribly sad mistake! There is no substitute for
home, no transfer of parental commission, no adequate compensation
for the parent's loss. None can effectually take the parent's
place. Their influence is overwhelming and absolute. What a
folly and a sin, therefore, for Christian parents to give over
their holy mission to another, while they immerse themselves
in the forbidden pleasures and recreation of the world! Oh,
if you are loving, faithful parents, you will love your household
more than the fashions of the world and the fashionable resorts
of the world; you will not substitute the "sitter"
and the "boarding schools" for the more efficient
ministration of the Christian home.
"Walk, therefore, worthy of the vocation
wherewith ye are called, with all lowliness and meekness."
"Magnify your office." Be faithful to your home-mission.
Draw your pleasure from it. Souls are committed to your trust
and hang upon your hire. Your regard for the temporal and eternal
welfare of your children should prompt you to faithfulness to
the holy mission of your family. You love your children, and
desire their welfare and happiness. But do what you will for
them, if you are unfaithful to their souls, you wrest from them
the means of safety and of happiness; you aid in their misery
in this and in the world to come. Do not let worldly desires
rob your home-mission; stay true to the calling of faithful
godly parents. Provide therefore, for your family as the Lord
commands. Your children are depending on you! Lead them to the
Saviour and guard your precious treasury of Home.
Edited by Titus 2 Ministry.